You know many of us need to be in a relationship to feel loved, or feel we're doing something. I know you know your already loved but when it comes to "proving" your love or worth to someone ehhhhhhh makes me cringe. I mean, it does take time for us to know who's real or not BUT do you think that proving every now and then about who you are needs to be repeated? Do you think that staying in a relationship that belittles you (and we should know some signs maybe this small article helps: CLICK HERE), you need to re-establish that you are worth it? Well, my opinion, NO!
Why in the world would you accept by staying with someone who doesn't give a 10cents about what you really are about. It goes to females and males, we all know that it goes both ways. If someone doesn't respect you then why would YOU THINK they will change because your staying, no. It doesn't work like that. They keep doing it and getting to do as they please because you are staying…showing them you are accepting that negative behavior.
Yes, I know, I can hear some of you saying…"But I "love" him/her."
Read this clearly:::: You may "love" this person BUT does this person "love" you?
Now repeat that! Your telling me that those negative actions, those negatives words, are coming from a person who loves you? If you "love" this person you wouldn't hurt them right? of course not. But now turn the table, ask him/her that question and I bet you that you already know the answer.
So why forcing that person to see that you are worth it, why forcing life to give you this person that is literally pushing themselves AWAY from you. Let it go!!! LET IT GO!!! Your worth it. I know it and you know. The person who knows it will treat you with the respect you need in life just for that 2am call.
Let it go and walk away.
I know there may be obstacles standing in the way, maybe kids, Hey I been there. Walk away! Your kids are worth it. And the longer you stay the more your kids will be taught how to treat you and others. Don't like the sound of that? Do yourself a favor, do what you have to do and keep moving forward.
YOUR WORTH IT!!!
Thanks for reading,
-sweetmanhattangirl-
