We all make bad decisions, we all make silly choices or a wrong turn somewhere but that doesn't mean you are not right. You are doing your steps as they come. If your a teen, the world may seem like the world is against you or that no one cares...or even might think that if you just don't exist, everything will be the same. But there will be a difference because for everything theres a reason. You may have been a "mistake" (as some say) to be conceived but you have a purpose to be alive. There's something in this world that you will make it know to others that we can make it. We can move on.
There are times that we feel like we are 'less than perfect' but you are in your OWN way. I know we humans say nothings perfect and maybe they right but guess what...YOU ARE PERFECT THE WAY YOU ARE. A flower is perfect even when the petals fall, a dog barking is perfect because he/she can talk, its own language.
I wish I can talk one on one to some people who feel down...Don't give up. The world has many wonderful and beautiful things around. It may be hard now it does get better. But you need to talk about what's going on. Don't ever let it get the best of you that you need to result into doing things that puts yourself into an action that will hurt. There are people out here that can help. Whether is sad, depressed, cutting or any other thing your going through, please know that someone out there (maybe near you) is willing to hear you and help you somehow.
Right now, I may be typing but my thoughts of what to type is everywhere. I have things to say but I need to put it together. But do know that I am here and if you wish to talk with someone, you can stay anonymous, and I will hear you out. I am including a link of what disturbed me and decided to update this type of blog. I will come back to this.
Ladies and gentlemen, please please know that you are NOT ALONE!!!!!
I am not sure if my email is available in my blog but I will update that by the end of the week. Or just comment on this if you wish to speak to me. Have a blessed day!!!
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/12/28/phoebe-prince-bullying-la_n_1172755.html?ref=school-bullying
Monday, January 30, 2012
Sunday, January 29, 2012
Sex, Marriage & Fairytales video.
I am a believer of God. I have Faith in Him. When I'm confused, I search for Him. I thank God in the mornings when I open my eyes. And when I see an elderly couple holding hands and enjoying their time, I know God is reminding me of my patience. This is a video on youtube that I cam across. Maybe some of you can listen closely and get closer to the answers you need. Enjoy!
Monday, January 23, 2012
Content.
*hearing Christian Music while updating my blog. @ http://www.klove.com/listen/player.aspx
I been away from here for a bit because this year the flu caught up to me. Had been so sick that I was out of it most of the time but deep down somehow God was answering some of the questions I had a few days before I got the flu.
There are times i get so into what I ask that I forget on how to listen and understand what God tells me. I know my family goes first, I know I have to do good and follow the word but somehow I got lost and was accepting something unhealty for. A relationship that wasn't a relationship and since it wasn't hard to realize that it wasn't what I need...I finally made a decision to again, just find myself again. Find what I really need and accept the fact that I deserve better.
With all that said I got the flu, my kid was sick...we both ended up in the hospital that the only person with us was with my mom! I can't thank her enough to helped me out and pay attention to my kid when needed because I couldn't too much (as I was in the ER as well). Having the faith in God and knowing my mom has 100% faith in God, I know it all worked out for us. And is still is. We are alive and healthy. Thanking God and thanking God for sending someone so caring like my mother to look over us.
I don't want to keep typing too much since homework needs to be done. But I do want others to know that I am still here, reading blogs and enjoying them. My faith keeps growing and loving myself and my family each day more!
I been away from here for a bit because this year the flu caught up to me. Had been so sick that I was out of it most of the time but deep down somehow God was answering some of the questions I had a few days before I got the flu.
There are times i get so into what I ask that I forget on how to listen and understand what God tells me. I know my family goes first, I know I have to do good and follow the word but somehow I got lost and was accepting something unhealty for. A relationship that wasn't a relationship and since it wasn't hard to realize that it wasn't what I need...I finally made a decision to again, just find myself again. Find what I really need and accept the fact that I deserve better.
With all that said I got the flu, my kid was sick...we both ended up in the hospital that the only person with us was with my mom! I can't thank her enough to helped me out and pay attention to my kid when needed because I couldn't too much (as I was in the ER as well). Having the faith in God and knowing my mom has 100% faith in God, I know it all worked out for us. And is still is. We are alive and healthy. Thanking God and thanking God for sending someone so caring like my mother to look over us.
I don't want to keep typing too much since homework needs to be done. But I do want others to know that I am still here, reading blogs and enjoying them. My faith keeps growing and loving myself and my family each day more!
Hugs to all!!
Saturday, January 7, 2012
A Thought
I wonder what can happen if we adults tell the kids what we already know and their reply can be different from "I Know". Kids know everything but yet know nothing, since we adults are still in the learning process. Life has become a little easier as you can organize your thoughts and feelings. Yes, organize. I mean, if you know a person is not good for you then it won't hurt to move. You know that that personality is not suitable in YOUR life.
As we move on, we learn other things. Like they way we want to be treated, the way we carry ourselves not many people do like. And that's ok because we are not here to be liked by everyone. If we can tell our kids that life has many things that you can choose from but not everything you WANT is for you. Some things you NEED may be better but as we grow, we learn how to make a wise decision.
Sometimes.
We adults also go through mistakes. That's why I love hanging out with senior citizens because they "been there done that" more than people at my age. (not too old lol) So I appreciate their chats about their youth, their advice in something’s in life, how picking a partner affects us as we age.
So what if I can tell my child what would be better for her, do you think that can work? How about if she finds a love and I see something wrong...should I tell her that isn’t going to work in the long run but enjoy it while it last BUT don't give him your heart?
I know children need to make their own mistakes to learn. I agree. But what if in other things we can help, like in work. Can we teach them to be more efficient, more humble? Well for those who are humble but those who are just feisty wow! LOL
I think if we all took a minute of our day to guide a child right we can have future adults making wiser choices than todays.
I tell my child, speak up to your teachers so you can get use to speaking what you feel BUT in a respectfully manner, using NO bad words. But she says they always right. Hmmmm, teachers always right? In my opinion (magic word) opinion, they not always right. No one is ever always right. They are humans too but what i can say is that a working hard, DEGREE teacher will most likely know a little more than you, according to the subject taught.
Well i do encourage her to speak up, respectfully, question what confuses you and you can learn something else other than what is being taught. One time it happen and by the look in my kids face... I was smiling.
See if we take a minute and teach our child(ren) to do a little more than the usual maybe a spark can come up to be a better human being, for themselves too. That's one thing I tell my child..."the person who wants to control you is afraid of growing up".
One thing I am defiantly trying to teach my kid is that no one is in this world, other than God, can make her feel a certain way she doesn't want to feel. Of course, we all feel all sorts of emotions in a point intended for the being. But if someone is doing for some stupidity then she controls that. She can control her own emotions. Feeling according to what that bully wants your giving in to their game and since my kid has a character of "I don't think so" then I try to prove to her that is the same....if you are not accepting what certain people do to you then don’t accept what those OTHER people want you to feel. Is a harder thing to do but repeating it, the brain becomes accustomed to hearing it…even without me there.
Thanks for passing through and reading!! Hope everyone enjoys their weekend!
As we move on, we learn other things. Like they way we want to be treated, the way we carry ourselves not many people do like. And that's ok because we are not here to be liked by everyone. If we can tell our kids that life has many things that you can choose from but not everything you WANT is for you. Some things you NEED may be better but as we grow, we learn how to make a wise decision.
Sometimes.
We adults also go through mistakes. That's why I love hanging out with senior citizens because they "been there done that" more than people at my age. (not too old lol) So I appreciate their chats about their youth, their advice in something’s in life, how picking a partner affects us as we age.
So what if I can tell my child what would be better for her, do you think that can work? How about if she finds a love and I see something wrong...should I tell her that isn’t going to work in the long run but enjoy it while it last BUT don't give him your heart?
I know children need to make their own mistakes to learn. I agree. But what if in other things we can help, like in work. Can we teach them to be more efficient, more humble? Well for those who are humble but those who are just feisty wow! LOL
I think if we all took a minute of our day to guide a child right we can have future adults making wiser choices than todays.
I tell my child, speak up to your teachers so you can get use to speaking what you feel BUT in a respectfully manner, using NO bad words. But she says they always right. Hmmmm, teachers always right? In my opinion (magic word) opinion, they not always right. No one is ever always right. They are humans too but what i can say is that a working hard, DEGREE teacher will most likely know a little more than you, according to the subject taught.
Well i do encourage her to speak up, respectfully, question what confuses you and you can learn something else other than what is being taught. One time it happen and by the look in my kids face... I was smiling.
See if we take a minute and teach our child(ren) to do a little more than the usual maybe a spark can come up to be a better human being, for themselves too. That's one thing I tell my child..."the person who wants to control you is afraid of growing up".
One thing I am defiantly trying to teach my kid is that no one is in this world, other than God, can make her feel a certain way she doesn't want to feel. Of course, we all feel all sorts of emotions in a point intended for the being. But if someone is doing for some stupidity then she controls that. She can control her own emotions. Feeling according to what that bully wants your giving in to their game and since my kid has a character of "I don't think so" then I try to prove to her that is the same....if you are not accepting what certain people do to you then don’t accept what those OTHER people want you to feel. Is a harder thing to do but repeating it, the brain becomes accustomed to hearing it…even without me there.
Thanks for passing through and reading!! Hope everyone enjoys their weekend!
Thursday, January 5, 2012
Christian Radio Station
Wanted to share with everyone that I found a radio station, K-Love, Christian Music. I'm adding a link so it can be easy for you to listen to. I enjoy listening to them everyday at home. Makes my heart content.
Enjoy!!! (thats only a pic if you click it, it probably won't take you there)
http://www.klove.com/
Enjoy!!! (thats only a pic if you click it, it probably won't take you there)
http://www.klove.com/
Sunday, January 1, 2012
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