Many can be describe to each and every one of us. But only you know the real you. Many can try and read you but we are good liers when it comes to true deeper feelings. I'm not adding a topic to this yet or the post but it's something I will update next.

To be continue...

-sweetmanhattangirl-



Peculiar Amor?

Love:  Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.  (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love)


How many of you need someone else to feel loved? Meaning, as a partner. Now I’m not talking about you say “no I don’t need someone” then a week later you are thinking you need a bf or gf. I’m talking about how many of you feel that you need someone else there for you to hug you, to call you…to love you? I’m assuming everyone is nodding their heads because everyone needs love. But now-a-days people tend to just accept who ever comes in their way. In order to feel the love or to say they have someone. This is not about that, what I am trying to say is, why can’t we feel full enough to meet someone to feel even fuller…fuller of love, fuller of more hugs. I know a few people who “need” to feel the love from another human being. They mourn like someone close to them has perished. But, take a look at yourself, do you think someone who is in the right place in their life, a person who is ready to give love because they have enough to share, would be with someone who everyday mourns? Or with someone that with one simple argument turns you into a total opposite person and who knows what you will do when you each go to work? I mean, I know there’s special love out there. Love that will accept just how you are. But maybe you’re looking for a certain love that is not suitable for you right now. Maybe the love you need to give and receive right now is from those around you. Maybe like your mom, dad or even your kids. Could be from anyone. Ok let’s make an example:

Married couple with children. They both work, kids are good in school. Both grandmothers alive, united family. Sisters, brothers, cousins, good friends…etc. But within all this one can feel lonely, but a mom of her true love and word will try her very best to make sure she is full in heart, mind, body and soul with Faith, to make herself happy with what she has, with your own little ones. She’s falling in love with another man. Now, yes it does happen but my question would be. Why would you if the person your with, husband/partner, is still in your same bed? Walks around like all is peachy, plays the role of “wifey” but then again sees another “love”. Then you go to bed with your partner but yet you cry because you “love” someone else. *laughs* this laugh is not joyful, it’s a laugh of “WTF” is wrong with you. You have a partner, you have your kids, a home, and a family and yet you need to act in a vicious way to bring down what you wanted a few years back, a family. Other girls would love to be in your place and cherish that.
Some of us “try” to change or thinks if no one gives them the chance then why bother to change. C’mon ladies, we are strong individuals that change for us, according to our terms. You don’t need some other humans’ approval or acceptance in order to show any types of changes you’re going through. A women who wants something for her better, gets it. But I am not saying like that little story I just typed, fix what you have first to open another chapter in your life. And if you’re in that position, think of what your teaching your kids. Yes, they do see and hear what your doing. Remember what you heard or seen, exactly.
Many would probably criticize of what I say but hey, it’s my blog and opinions are welcomed. Being single doesn’t mean you are not worthy of finding that special someone, for me it means. You are molding your life, your emotions, your love so when that special arrives you’ll know how to react in accordance. There’s no handbook for love but I know that in my road, with God by my side, I am being molded a good way to appreciate a good man. Because many have those sweet simple love but for me, I want that weird goofy peculiar love. That love that makes me say “OMG I would have never thought of that”. A love that is not only based of the big things but the simple ones. That even a simple walk will makes us grow fonder of each other. A love that is speechless in a peculiar way.

One day we all will find that special love. the love that we need at the right moment. And with Faith, we will get it. Just have patience, and along the way make the right choices, behave, so when it’s here. You can have your head up high and know that your road is safe to retrace.

Peculiar love is what I think I need. At the right time, I’ll know and feel safe to accept it. Till next time friends.

xoxo -sweetmanhattangirl-

sickness?

Hello World,

Hope everyone is doing good. Well as some of know the world is filled with good and bad but since I don't watch alot of TV because of the badness in the news...I saw a few things online that not only shocked me but confused me as in to why? (links in the bottom)

Now I may be here typing away but my kid is around me, if she gets up, I'll keep an open eye and ear. But others will continue like nothing is happening and everything will be ok. Moms on facebook and their 13 month old baby drowing in their family bath tub....ummmm yea that's a big no-no. Then your child drowns and some of us mothers come with the greatest excuses and think the world will take it. Newsflash, the world of your own home can be warmth but outside is another story.
Now why in the world would a mom leave their baby unattended in a bathtub? her reply" "Not to baby him". Really? are we that naive and stupid to think your going to baby your baby? C'mon you gotta do better than that, oh yea she said she was on "facebook". I slightly laughed at this because FB (facebook) will not leave, its a multimillion dollar website that will be there for your convinience but you choosed that.
I don't want to get into this too deep because my goodness my brain won't be relaxed to sleep tonight. So I'll leave it at that. Another topic later on will do. Have a good night all.

xoxo

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/2011/04/16/2011-04-16_mom_whose_baby_drowned_while_she_was_on_facebook_sentenced_to_10_years_in_prison.html

Mom killes herself and kids

I found this article and it's from Upper manhattan, nyc. near the GWB. I'm sharing the link then adding a blog about this. For now, read and comment on what you feel towards this.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/04/14/lashanda-armstrong-distra_n_849141.html?icid=main%7Chp-laptop%7Cdl1%7Csec1_lnk2%7C209804

Fully Believe

Hello World,

This weekend went great for me, spiritually and my strength in helping others increase. But somehow, I have a thought in mind about people accepting their flaws. Many of use are ignorant in that category, and it’s not a insult. I am ignorant in biology hahaha. Well I am not sure why I keep this special person in mind. I don’t think much of this special person but the actions they take are confusing in what is being written by him. I know I can’t save everyone and not everyone is really looking to be saved, but just want to look for attention. But this special person gives me more energy in how not to be in my life. It’s not an insult but my insight about myself, accepting who I really am. Whether bad or good.
We humans are programed to lie, cheat, smile, run and all that. We are taught on how to be a nice well mannered human being. But when all this doesn't won’t matter? When does a human being stop being considerate of others feelings? I guess, when our loved ones just don’t care. So we feel hurt and consciously don’t care either. I understand everyone goes through different things in life, I understand it does take time to pass through a bumpy road. But if you are speaking about faith and God and how each of us should accept each other as friends, faithful brothers and sisters, why aren’t you keeping your word alive? I mean, I understand we are not perfect and we tend to fall off track but how about when you turn to that caring into not caring in s second? How can someone live life in a way that lies to get into someone else’s pants? How can you say you need friends and when you have new ones they run away within the first week?
Is it because you immediately talk about real love and you needing something? How can you fall in love with someone you just meet? It can happen but the way you are makes me think, its not safe for people to do that. If the faith of God is helping you and your deleting those who wish bad to you, why delete them when your Lord tells you to love your enemies. Keep them closer. Why are you putting others down when they say the truth? Is it because its hard to listen and fully understand that you as a human being need spiritual guiding. How can anyone help if you harassing girls left and right. Some are even friends, some are family and you become in between for what? To create an obscured scene so others can see you’re the one? The one what?, the one that lies and cheats? It all goes back to you my special friend. I don’t like putting others down but lies have been thrown like candy in a piñata and you need to see that what you’re doing is a negative thing to others and yourself. Your going to end up alone if you don’t wake up and pay attention to what you really need in life.
Accept your ways of treating others, accept that your in denial about your obscured ways, accept it all from your heart not just your lips. Don’t think every person out there need to see certain things from you to feel accepted or loved. You’ll only cheat yourself and be unhappy.

We all go through different situations but this case, I wanted to put it out there because its something I don't understand. I may have understood but how can a brain say yes but then fall into the trap of feeling not there? I guess that's another day, another post. 
Until then my friends, be safe!

*kiss kiss* 

In A World Like This

Hello World,

In a world so dark during the day and darker during the night...how can one keep the Faith? I am asking because I need more encouragement and since I have them every now and then. I yearn for more.
In a world like this, how can I trust. Those who pass as Christians, Pentecostals, Catholics or what ever religion they are. How can I trust, when I trust, you misuse.
We go back to square one.
How can a religious brother or sister read some verses and not reach that high but puts us down?
How can I trust since some of us mistreat when being faithful friend. Over the years or even a month.
In a world like this, has made me stronger.
In a world like this, the rain is love and the sunshine is hugs!
In a world like this, smiles are kept and love is abused.
but in a world like this, with Faith, you will live!

because in a world like this, I live and I share. And I smile and I hug.
I meet and keep while sometimes...
In a world like this, I walk alone with God here.
And I wouldn't trade a world like this because...
Our Lord is guiding.
This world with Faith.
In a world like this,

Hello World,

Pardon my absence! Been good and all. Wanted to update you all to let you know that even though alot has happen I do plan and express them here. I tend to sometimes stay quiet and for a good reason, then I will come will my stories.

*kiss kiss*

Sharing a quote...

“Mothers of Teenagers Know Why Animals Eat Their Young”

Just thought I shared this quote I got from online. It didn't mention who's the author but I sure got a laugh. :-)