Reminder

WE TEND TO FORGET THAT

HAPPINESS

DOESN'T COME AS A RESULT

OF GETTING SOMETHING

WE DON'T HAVE, BUT

RATHER OF

RECOGNIZING

& APPRECIATING

WHAT WE

DO HAVE!

-frederick keong-

Someone will cherish this!

Answers?

There are so many questions that we ask others and sometimes ourselves. From easy to hard, not multiple choice but even harder than we thought questions. The problem in those questions is figuring out the answers. Sometimes we know them right away, other times we're stuck like a puzzle. Not knowing where to even begin.
I think that many of us get confused in just concentrating on knowing right away the Why's and not actually marinating in the road to get to that answer of Why. Hopefully you understand what I'm saying. But if not, I'm sorry. Maybe this can help: If something happens in our life, maybe a divorce, we would probably see it as a failure. Depending on the situation of course. You go through steps while divorcing, steps that may include sadness, acceptance, depression and moving on with your life.
What we don't see at the moment is that, that exact road that maybe one of our cafemom or facebook friends went through, there's a light at the end of the tunnel. A place where you are actually shinning at the brightest. Brighter than before where ever you were. Getting there is a hard road but you will get to the answer.
There's also questions being asked and while that you go and do something else that will bring up MORE questions. Therefore, getting more confused in what you want in life. (keeping the divorce idea here).
There are times in our lives that we need to be alone and meditate. Mediate about ourselves. get to know the real deep down you, and your needs. not only wants but what you really need next to you, in your life.
Many of us gets confused and asnwer one of their questions by getting into another relationship and it doesn't end up well. Confused again, asking what happen, or maybe thinking it was you when it probably wasn't...means you need time to do what you need for yourself first. if your working, keep working, do more than usual, be better at it. You never know what that place may bring for your life. Take an activity with a friend (or meet new friends there). Maybe like an art class, or do movie night at your place or a friends place. Or a small gathering. If your religious, joining a bible class may help too. If your a teen there's lots of things to do. A grown women with kids, now there's major activities you can do with them. Alone, then do something you usually don't, maybe a writing class, pottery, dance class. Some people tend to write what they feel and actually feel better.
If we are stuck with many questons, lets not expect answers right away. Because what you lost is actually an openning to a better door. Whether is a partner or a pet. We all don't stay or live forever. It does hurt, I know that, there's pain, I know that too. But there's hope also. Hope in that we would see the better tomorrow and the filling it will have to make things better, or at least somewhat.
Please know that if your going through something there are people out there to talk to. And if youfeel you want to talk to be, don't hesitate, I don't judge and I always choose my words carefully.
From my family to yours, Merry Christmas and a Happy New Years!!!

Happy Holidays!!!

From our family to your, MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
My weekend was great, got all what I needed and gave enough gifts that I needed to give out. Thank GOD I felt that everything went well. My family was over at my house and we were blessed with enough love. I also want to THANK my NEW FOLLOWERS, and for your comments. This week I'll come here more since work will probably be slower.

So how was everyone's holidays? Anything you want to share? I'm sure someone got something extra special :-).

A pic from Macy's decorations for Christmas. Enjoy and be safe my friends!!

Random

I love the fact that I am the type that I prefer to stay home. I feel safer at home. When I'm outside I get paranoid, a little, especially if I'm with my family. I tend to look around alot. Living in the city may have done this but I think its a part of me that has more meaning than just 'living in the city'. These past few days I been up and about, happier than usual. Thanks\ful about everything. Good and bad. Accepting God's given road to me. I  guess what I'm trying to say is that tonight is a little different. My thoughts are else where but my heart is still in wanting to help others. The real question is, right now, who's there for me? God, of course. Next, my family. But you see, sometimes we need those weird stranger talks to make open our eyes more. Sometimes we hear verse ABC from a family and coming from a stranger, verse ABC sounds much more interesting. Somehow we humans do that. When a strangers says the same advice, the same option, the exact opinion about something here in this earth, we tend to accept it faster and with an open brain to what is being said.
Tonight, I will take it easy because is will and hopefully will be, a wonderful day tomorrow! A special day for someone whom I love very much and appreciate EVERYTHING done for me.

In the other side of my brain, been thinking of how some people can't accept their offsprings needs them. If you had your parents why not be a parent to your own.
Thanks for visiting my blog and accepting me on your screen for a few minutes.
Good Night!!