Monday, April 17, 2023

Live the Life.

Hi Sunshines,

Each day we grow in any shape or form, but we grow. We learn more about ourselves, we learn about others, and we gain knowledge of new ways to manage life. 

The emotional road is one of the hardest roads to walk through. Everything we do and say, every meet-up, encounter, conversation, and dream, has an emotional wave. 

With those emotions, we decide what we want and need. Which emotions do we want to keep getting and giving while pushing away the ones we do not desire.

Through it all, we humans have an instinct that we view our moments to analyze and then make decisions. While some are not, what we desire is something we need to do.

We want to keep certain people while life, or any belief we have, God, makes us learn that some don’t belong with us nor want us. We learn that while all this time we thought while doing it right, in the end, we are not liked, cherished, or loved like we wanted to be.

Acceptance is a hard pill to swallow, but it is something that we need to look deep into ourselves, marinate with emotions and analyze to make a decision if we really need that or them. 

While we want to grow old with someone or have family close by while shedding tears, we still view that some things, like the emotional aspect towards them or us, do change. 

And so should we.

Live the life.

Life has a special way of bringing the people you need at the right moment. 

-SweetBetty 💋





Thursday, March 3, 2022

Just Let It Be...

Hello Sunshines!

February 2022 has been an experimental and yet accomplished month. The positiveness outweighed the cruelness, speechless, and awe moments. We all know life has its ups and downs, even sideways. Is all part of the path of goals in life and one I am most proud of is waking up at 4 am every weekday to meditate, exercise, and just be. 

I always wondered why some humans enjoyed waking up very early. I had enjoyed staying awake late to appreciate the night, the moon, the quietness… it was a moment I felt I was alone while everyone was sleeping. The problem with this schedule was that I had to wake up early for work. Which made me tired therefore, I found another form to enjoy the night while everyone was sleeping. Or I assume they were.

I decided to switch it, I went to bed early to wake up extra early and just be.

I would let it be and exercise. 

I would let it be and enjoy the night view from the window.

I would let it be and turn only the dimmed lights.

I would let it be and sweat off the parts I do not want to keep.

I would let it be and read.


It was a time I can call my own and ponder what was going on in my life. 

It was a time I can meditate and pray regarding the questions I had due to the encounters I experienced. 

It was a time I can think clearly and make wise choices for myself.

It was a time to accept past ends and envision new beginnings. 

It was a time of clarity.


At this age, I am not amazed how time and people change, or maybe do not change. We all are accountable for our actions, and we all are smart humans to know what we want, need, and should do for ourselves. But sometimes we do not know, sometimes we lose sight of what is good for us. And that’s ok. This is how we learn.

We go through things and seasons of people, and we learn. 

There is no hate or bad omen sent to the wrongdoers that assisted to shape or form to make us stale, but there is a responsibility to oneself when it comes to love. Loving yourself to just let it be.

I am letting it be that today the date 03/03/2022 represents the three people that were seasoned. It is a hard pill to swallow when a relationship ends, and I mean any type of relationship. Is hard to accept that the blindness of the eyes from the heart finally has seen what it truly has been. From males to females, from months to years of knowing someone, things change. And that’s ok, too. 

I am letting it be that today marks the month of the beginning of the end for three relationships I had kept dear. All served their purpose, all expressed their true colors, all have used their time and now I just let it be.

Now, I continue my journey, encounter new meet-ups, start new projects, and just let it be. But even so, because I am human, I wonder if I had to keep one, would that number want to stay? 


But… I am going to just let it be and enjoy the night view from the window. 

-SweetBetty 💋